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what is up guys we are back here day two agreement to of from the book The Four Agreements by Miguel Ruiz and you are here with BTW now the second agreement is don't take anything personally I really like this one and he says that seventy-five percent of the sufferings of humans come from the impeccability of your word so using words against yourself the poisoning yourself and poisoning others which then in turn puts bad mojo in your life in simple terms he doesn't say like that so don't I'm not quoting him on that and then there's the second one which is don't take anything personally now we think about that we think that everybody sees the worst the world that would the way we see it growing up the environments that were brought up in the you know things that are said to us that we have no control over we agree with them we take them because we don't know any better right so we have all these agreements about ourselves you know maybe bad things about ourselves that like just just bad thoughts about ourselves right and where did they come from really right we didn't think we are born into this world not knowing anything and through life we gained all this crap and same goes with that person they went through different circumstances they heard things growing up and that's what they're going to be repeating to you right so it makes sense to them but it's not the same because you didn't grow up like them all right you have your own way of doing things you have your own vocabulary use words differently you form sentences differently so he says it's really selfish to think about to think that people are talking about you it's very selfish to think that Oh everything revolves around me what they're saying is about me you know the things that you say and do you're responsible for yourself you're not responsible for other people's reactions to what you say you're not responsible for touching certain things and other people because it's really is there their wounds you know it's stuff that they have to deal with you know it's ones that they have to heal themselves you know you're not responsible for touching those you know so you know don't take anything personally right how can you really when nothing is really about you of the the place from which they come is different from where you come and if you can do this if you can be impeccable with your word not spreading this poison not taking in poison from other people and letting them poison your life as well then it'll get rid of he says 75 percent of the human sufferings and I really I really can relate to this you know like bodybuilding said there's a lot of different perspectives on people's bodies right what's fat what's skinny what's healthy what's shredded what's you know this or that and it's really up to you to define how you like your body what you want out of your body you know it's not up to somebody who grew up differently than you to say hey you need to look like this no that's not it it's how do you want to look what are you what are your goals you know what do you feel like in trusting yourself you know and he also says another good point is he says you lie to yourself right we all we all lie to ourselves to some extent about you know things that are going on things that we need to change so don't expect other people to tell you the truth because they're afraid they're afraid of you seeing past their little social mask you know they put up this facade like oh like everything's great or you know I'm this or on that and really are they are they really if you take strip all that down they're just afraid of being seen so don't expect people to tell you the truth they're most likely gonna lie to you anyway so you have to know your own truth know what like is in your heart and what you feel is best for yourself not anybody else is up for you know can tell you how to feel about that you know and if they do they're most likely trying to poison your ass so think you know so today you know I want to challenge you guys to also you know don't take anything personally and just see when you aren't taking things personally you know see how your actions it keeps you from doing certain things or it keeps you from saying certain things or it it has you feeling a certain way because somebody said something or somebody came at you the wrong way or somebody cut you off in traffic is it really personal with somebody cut you off in traffic no it's not personal there's nothing to do with the youth and it's selfish to think that it has something to do with you or to attack you how could they do this to me well they it's about them and what they feel they can do cut walk right it has nothing to do with you they may feel like it's okay you don't feel like it's okay so there's two different things so when people criticize you or when people bash you or whatever it's not about you don't take it personally how can you it has nothing to do with you think about how they grew up it's totally different coming alright so today like I said don't take anything personally see when you are taking things personally and maybe take like him I'm taking this personally you know I'm just going to let this go it's not about me it's about this person I'm not going to take their poison today I want to finish the video by just showing you guys I eat the same shit every day and the crockpot chicken is good it's really good because I'm able to eat this every day I think eating this probably for the last nine days and it shows in my body it's really tasty so the other look out for this for this crock pot video and I will catch up with you guys tomorrow for day three of the three agreement this has been BTW i hope you guys have learned something i hope then it makes sense if it doesn't make sense this is the way I understand it don't take it personally is that you know that you can don't take it personal all right guys peace