Gadgetory

what is up guys BTW back here again with another motivational Monday today we're going to be talking about fear and the effect that it has in my life and how we can beat it now fear can keep us from attempting new things and stepping out of our comfort zone because fear of failure fear not being good enough fear is lost so a lot of the times the fear is just thinking that if we go out and try something we're going to lose we're going to not only fail at this but we're going to also lose something at the same time but we don't think about what we have to gain so that's one step in beating fear is to think about what you're going to gain by doing certain things that you want to do don't think so much on the lost side because you know there's a chance that you may lose something there's a change may not but oftentimes we over exaggerate what we're going to lose as opposed to what we have to gain now another kids that I have with deal fear is and this is the i think one thing that can change an old perspective on fear what we think about fear let's say I'm going to lose my job you don't think about what comes after what we would do after so just this one fear a very bold general statement that we take a real thick as fact and we don't think about okay what would I do next what I do after I lost my job what would you do would you then go right away update your resume put it up online make it look all fancy and then get some interviews with in that same week two weeks months who knows maybe have some savings to fall down maybe you can't go out to eat all the time but for right now you have money in the bank and you can sustain yourself into that next job so challenge yourself if not and then once you once you go to that next level you're going to see hey look it's not that bad okay huh that's it and then you're going to feel better it's kind of soften that fear if I'm going to be is harsh it's not going to be as big and scary as you think it is so whatever fear you have what is that you want to approach a girl that say a lot of you guys might want to be a person growth so hmm there's going to be fear of failure what if she rejects me okay so if she rejected you then what would you do would you like me over like your mind makes you think or which is just go on and live your life and forget about it by the next day so then your spare okay sure just to me okay now what am I going to do it okay maybe I can go talk to the other girl that's been looking at me you can see on that works done instead we let it sit there we you won't approach that girl to God opportunity lost right so think in terms of what you have to gain but it's on the other hand she likes you guess what you just gained a new friend or love interest whatever you guys want to do so these have just been a couple examples of how you can use this technique to defeat clear and how to progression relies so guys try this out this week let me know how it goes in the comments below and I will see you back in the next video